Saturday, 16 April 2016

How would you know if he's cheating on you?

1. He will never leave his phone unattended. Leon isn't the kind of person where he would always has his phone with him 24/7. For instance, at this very moment when I'm typing this, he's sound asleep next door with his phone beeping and non-stop vibrating in front of me. He has never tried to hide his phone from me. And, I, the same. It does not really matter to me if he is holding my phone or when he is using mine.

2. He will always tell you that he's out with his friends but never tells you who. A boyfriend would always want to share stories with you from his night out/ day out with his friends. Leon always tells me things about his day and night and whatever interesting thing he has done throughout the day. I know all his friends, some of his colleagues, and although I wasn't always there next to him, he will always let me know what is happening.

3. He always try to be suspicious and hide things from you. He would always secretly hangs out with someone and never answer your calls or reply your messages. I know every single thing Leon is doing. I'm not clingy or not even close to being a spy. I would randomly call Leon and ask what he is doing because I miss him and I wanted to listen to his voice. He will also randomly show me conversations between him and his friends.

4. Conversations start to depreciate. Conversations between Leon and I will always be interesting where it will somehow ends with a debate on the issues about the world or the economics or whatever I had studied on the books or even about banks. I have learnt a lot from him. Especially Physics.

5. He has more female friends than you do. I know all the friends/ex/not-friends-anymore-kind-of-friends that Leon has.

6. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around. Leon has never make me feel left out in this relationship. He will always kiss me saying i love you for a thousand times a day.

7. He always has a reason why you can't meet up with him. The only thing we talk about every night is whether I drive him to work and then fetch him after work or that he comes to my place and fetch me to his.

8. You never know where he is. Leon has never been to a place without telling me where his whereabouts.

9. He can't commit. He will always have something on his mind and arguments will lead to one another and breaking up will be the only topic you guys talk about. Leon and I always talk about where we should stay in the future, apartment or a landed house, how many kids we want, 3? 2? 1?. A boyfriend who never talks about a future with you will never have a future with you.

10. You haven't met his family. Oh damn, I'm basically living in Leon's house for the past few months & I know the house like my own, I know where all the light and fans buttons are and where Ruby's (his dog) snacks are placed.

11. He has a dating app on his phone. It's funny how we actually met there and it's really sweet how both of us deleted it after.

12. He will make you feel insecure. Leon has never stopped complementing me since the day we met. "You look damn hot", "I'm so lucky to have you", "Your boobs are so perfect to me". I have body issues and I feel so damn bloody insecure about myself and these simple things that Leon does is making me feel less insecure about myself. 

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